Aberdeen Village

Response: Boy I can agree!! My moms care plan was delayed by two months!! Then--I was asked to BACKDATE IT so she would be in compliance with the state!! That broke my trust!! Also--my dads "care plan" didn't include ANY family on one of the due care plans!! My dad left the building 14 days after arriving and was found BY THE POLICE at the quick trip!! Who did Aberdeen blame????? My dad!!! Said he was "too fast". He was 90!!! He had on a wander guard. I could tell you 20 more stories. I do not recommend them. Too bad some of their great aides can't have more help!!!

Response: Boy I can agree!! My moms care plan was delayed by two months!! Then--I was asked to BACKDATE IT so she would be in compliance with the state!! That broke my trust!! Also--my dads "care plan" didn't include ANY family on one of the due care plans!! My dad left the building 14 days after arriving and was found BY THE POLICE at the quick trip!! Who did Aberdeen blame????? My dad!!! Said he was "too fast". He was 90!!! He had on a wander guard. I could tell you 20 more stories. I do not recommend them. Too bad some of their great aides can't have more help!!!

Response: Boy I can agree!! My moms care plan was delayed by two months!! Then--I was asked to BACKDATE IT so she would be in compliance with the state!! That broke my trust!! Also--my dads "care plan" didn't include ANY family on one of the due care plans!! My dad left the building 14 days after arriving and was found BY THE POLICE at the quick trip!! Who did Aberdeen blame????? My dad!!! Said he was "too fast". He was 90!!! He had on a wander guard. I could tell you 20 more stories. I do not recommend them. Too bad some of their great aides can't have more help!!!

Response: they made my 94 year old mother MOVE two months after the death of her husband who had alzheimers...said she couldn't have her needs met and she was an ENDANGERMENT....really? she never came out of her room ONE time for the six days that she experienced severe delirium from a combination of over medication ...it started at aberdeen with a reaction to celexa causing her to have a SEVERE sudden disfluency with her speech---I am a retired SLP (speech language pathologist) and so they eventually (almost two months later) decreased the celexa...so by march she had added an anxiety drug but she started having what looked like seizure or stroke to the nurse on duty on 4/5/2016 but NO one reported this to me...my mom said that a nurse was ready to call 911...I had been forced to stay in their guest suite after being able to stay in my moms home for my visits...i did have two long visits of 6-7 weeks because my dad was said to be dying both times...seems appropriate to me...plus everyone else who was at other assisted livings said they were allowed to stay... i contacted my ombudsman and she said I could stay there until they wrote a formal policy...so on May 4th my moms 94th birthday I had a meeting with the corporate director of nursing..man they brought the director of nursing of Assisted living and the chaplain and the exec director...they wanted me to LEAVE my moms HOME and go to guest suite ON my moms bday....no i wasn't going...I knew what my rights were...I left the day after mothers day...a doctor who was a prominent KC doc just happened by the grace of God to come and visit my mom before he and his wife moved...and he suggested that my mom was having a reaction to the meds....wow!!!!! So--on mothers day I wrote it out and the nurse faxed it to the doc...seritonin syndrome from celexa and busbar...could cause her jibberish in the am and her confusion and her completely normal in the afternoon behavior...so suddenly my mom is now not appropriate for AL anymore the report was dated a few days later...my mom got a BAD cold and got bronchitis a few weeks later--went to hospital...they gave her ativan..she got full speed delirium to the point she couldn't sleep or hardly speak...she was hallucinating and it was worse than my dads alzheimers...she came back with 24/7 private duty care and NEVER once came out of her room for the six days post the hospital visit...what happened next was too horrible for me to even write it all out--but she was told she had PNEUMONIA AND HER DAUGHTER WASNT ALLOWING HER TO GO TO HOSPITAL...wait...i didn't allow her to go the first trip because she was screaming and screaming she didn't want to go to JAIL!! she truly thought due to her paranoia that she was in major danger...so clearly I wanted her to go via a non-threatening means....and I was THE one who iniatiated the need to go to a hospital...well she finally did go to hospital via ambulance because she could NOT go the non-threatening way because 911 had been called...the captain approached her more gently with only he and one other person instead of with FIVE large men...she got on gurney but when i separated from her she screamed all of the way to St. Lukes PlazA....She was diagnosed with being over medicated and she also clearly did not have pneumonia as they were saying they did a CT scan and an X-ray and blood cultures..my sweet mama did not have pneumonia so she clearly should have gone by non-threatinging means...she was terrified by the nurse saying the POLICE needed to come when the corporate nurse said this--I did call them myself and made it clear that my mom was delirious from overmedication...she interrupted me as she even wrote that in the report and the facts remain...she was overmedicated..and the psychiatrist made it crystal clear she was dealing with paranoia...even after coming off of ALL of the drugs given they wanted me to have her go to REHAB for her walking via a NON-THREATENING method---she went in a wheelchair van..even that was somewhat scary...but no screaming at all..it was one of the worst experiences of my entire life...I can't tell you how heartbroken I was that we couldn't sit down like adults and discuss this in a professional manner...

Response: Maybe get the state report. They were recently cited for many things.